I’ve found that when I start talking to someone on a free dating site for more than a few weeks, one of us will want to take things to a different level. Meeting in person, talking on the phone, planning a date, something. That’s the good part. The bad part is when you’re still getting to know the person and they suggest moving forward before you’re ready. What do you really know about this person? Do you feel comfortable with meeting him just yet? When you don’t know if you’re ready to move things away from the computer, then you can always change the pace you’re taking things online.
My suggest? Talking dirty. I’m sure that from first hand experience, you know how much guys you’re dating love to hear you say things out of the norm. If you haven’t had that experience, let me tell you how much they like it: A LOT. That’s how much.
Hearing someone talk sexually lets us connect on a whole new level. Not only does it give you a higher sense of intimacy, but it stimulates your libido and helps you loosen up when talking to your online date.
The best part about it is there’s no risk! When you meet someone, you’re always putting yourself in a very vulnerable state. You never know how they’re going to react, how your connection will be, how anything will go basically. When you’re getting into dirty talk online then you’re building onto the bond that you’ve already created.
So how do you get into it? Easy, you dive right in! Let them know that you’ve really been thinking about the latest picture they sent you, and how you can get it off your mind before you go to sleep. Doing that opens the door to a ton of questions that he’d love to answer! “Do you ever think about me before you go to sleep?” is a big one! When a guy hears something like that, it triggers him to answer naturally and honestly, which is exactly what you want.
If you’re going to start talking dirty, don’t hold anything back. The more fun you have with it, the better it’s going to be for the both of you. So break out your Cosmo, gather your tips, and start talking dirty!