- We all know the easiest way to get a girlfriend is through online dating sites. That statistics even say that your chances of meeting a girlfriend at a bar are slim to none, and that most relationships are a result of either an introduction from a friend or an online dating site.
If you find yourself reading this and you don’t have a girlfriend, you need to jump back a few steps and first and foremost, get one of those. There are plenty of dating sites out there that you can easily meet a girl on. Just check out all the different ones in my review section to determine what site is best for you, and then once you hop on board and find a girlfriend, you can then come back to this advice.
Okay, back to the topic at hand! So, you’re in a relationship with this awesome girl that you met on your favorite dating site, and although things are going pretty good, she seems to be a little too clingy. Sure, it’s nice to know that you’re wanted, but she is going a little too overboard with the smothering.
Having a girlfriend that is clingy can be really difficult and can often be the demise of the relationship. So if you ultimate goal is to stay with her, but to get her from being so clingy, you need some advice and tips on what to do.
Fist off, you need to communicate with her. You need to tell her that she is being clingy, because to be honest, she might not even realize it! Let her know how you feel in a serious conversation and a lot of the times, she will back off. Communication is key!
Along with telling her about her clingy-ness, you also have to show her that she is your girl. Ultimately, the reason why she is clingy in the first place is because she is insecure about the relationship. Maybe she thinks you’re cheating or that you’re going to stray. In order to reassure her that you’re not doing/thinking of these things, you have to show her that she is the only one and as annoying as it seems, you should probably do this often. It’ll all be worth it in the end. 😉
When it comes to phone or texting conversations, you must have the ball in your court. In order to do this you have to call her. Don’t let her call or text you first because then she will try and keep you on the phone forever. If you initiate, she will appreciate it and subconsciously not care when you end the conversation. She will be happy at the fact that you were the first to call, therefore she wont care that you also ended it.
You should only hang out twice a week. Set a limitation on the amount of time you spend together because the more time you spend together, the more she is going to want you around when you’re not. If you explain to her that even though she is the most important thing in your life, you have other hobbies, friends, and interests you also have to fit into your schedule. So, if you limit to the time you spend together to only 2 nights a week, she will become comfortable with this number and wont try and get more time with you.
If you follow all these tips, then you will no longer have a clingy girlfriend on your hands.
You should essentially do all of these things at the very beginning of a relationship in order to avoid the clingy-ness from the get go.
What are some other tips you can give to refrain her from being clingy? Please share!