In the real world, it’s a simple task trying to win someone over. All you really have to do is show up with flowers on the first date and you’re set! So how do you pull those same suave moves online when you can’t give her roses? Well my friend, breathe easy, because there’s several things you can do in online dating that are just as romantic!
Send her a YouTube video of romantic songs. Musicians today have amazing ways of expressing their music visually. When you watch a music video now, they’re almost like mini movies, and when you’re watching one for a romantic song, it can really hit home. Sending someone a romantic video for a sweet song and letting them know it reminds you of them, it can mean something much more powerful than just sending flowers. Not ready to get that mushy yet? Just fine! You can still send them videos of something that means a lot to you. Had a favorite song growing up? Send them the video for that and tell them the story behind your connection with it. It’s a great way to start a new conversation.
Send her an e-card! Believe it or not, studies in the last few years show that women LOVE getting e-cards. It’s the new pen-on-paper flirtatious letter, if you will. It’s extremely easy to do, and you never have to over think it. Simply click a style, type in your names, and hit send! It’s as easy as that, and it will put a big smile on her face.
Things are getting serious? Send flowers! Never been on a proper date with her? Don’t let that stop you from being romantic! Girls love getting flowers from guys no matter what their dating means are. If they’re comfortable enough to give you their address, then go ahead and order a dozen white roses for the special occasion she has coming up.
Send her a message unexpectedly. A lot of people who are dating online have specific times they talk. 6 o’clock on weeknights, 4 o’clock on weekends, that kind of thing. If you and your online buddy have that kind of structure, send her a message on your off time just to let her know you’re thinking about her. A little thought goes a long way, and she’ll get a smile out of the fact that you’ve been thinking about her.
You don’t need to spend money to get someones attention, you just need to be sincere and thoughtful. Try these tips and see how she reacts. A little attention on her just may mean a LOT of attention on you!