You already know how to write the perfect adult dating profile, so now it’s time for the next step.
You’ve browsed the members and you’ve taken note of some that have really stood out.
The great thing about sending private messages on dating sites is the fact that you can send out as many as possible and the women will have no clue how many other women you’re chatting too. You’ve got to keep your options open, so go ahead and send anyone a message that tickles your fancy.
With that being said the message that you send out to all these women CANNOT be the same message. You must send each woman a unique message that tailors specifically to their profile so they know that you’re not just sending every chick on the site the same message.
First off, you can’t guarantee that they’re even going to read your message, so you need to come up with a great subject line that’s going to make them WANT to see what you have to say.
The subject line is like a “first impression” so it’s VERY important.
The subject needs to do the following:
- Make them laugh.
- Make them curious
- Be compelling
BAD SUBJECT LINE:
Hey sexy, nice ass 😉
GOOD SUBJECT LINE (if they say they like movies in their profile, for example):
What’s your favorite Jurassic Park movie? 1, 2 or 3?
The “good subject line” is interesting, quirky, will make them laugh, and is compelling.
If you don’t get a response, don’t get down on yourself.
The odds are in your favor because you’re sending out a lot of messages and chances are a good chuck of the women will write you back.
Just remember: don’t come off as a pervert
When it comes to the actual message itself, keep it short and sweet and once again make sure it’s interesting. Also, spelling and grammar are very important to women, so make sure you edit it before you press send.
Your pics are really cute. I’d love to meet you.
I saw in your profile that you enjoy movies. Jurassic Park is probably one of my favorite movies of all time. I heard the studios were thinking of making another one!
Now that you sent your message, you have to wait for a response. If you don’t hear back from them, do not send them another message. If they don’t write back, they’re not interested, bottom line.
Now that you have all the tools for contacting women, go ahead and get started! Remember; you’ve got nothing to lose!
SIDE NOTE: Some sites (for example, PassionSearch.com) give you advice right on the website on what type of messages are most successful on that type of site. Use these for reference.