Trying To Date While Still In Love

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Getting over an ex is the hardest task people have to face in their lives. It’s very rare you’ll find an occasion in which people break up and leave all feelings in the past, so chances are you’re going to be stuck with some left over love even after things have gone south. People have a tenancy to think of the first relationship out of a long-lasting one as a rebound, but that doesn’t have to be the case.

If you still have feelings for an ex, before you even think about dating again you have to decipher what those lingering feelings mean. Falling back to old decision tactics like pro/con lists are actually very beneficial in cases like this, because seeing things on paper is going to give you a much clearer idea of what you’re feeling. Write down what you miss about them and what you don’t miss about them. Take the information that you do miss about them- can you find these traits in other people? Do you miss the fact that they would have made a good parent or are passionate about their job? If this is the case, chances are you’ll be able to find those traits again in other matches who are better suited for you.

When you get to the point that you are in fact ready to move on regardless of the feelings you have left, step back into the water slowly. Online datingis perfect for someone who just ended a relationship. Because you’re able to enter into it at your own pace. If you start getting slowly interested in someone, then you can slowly start forgetting about that painful breakup.

The most important think in getting back into the dating scene is to make sure you’re ready! Rushing something that you’re not ready for is a recipe for disaster, will waste your time, and can start you back at square one. Take your time and keep in mind why you dated in the first place! A bad relationship can leave a sour taste in your mouth, so always put effort into thinking positively about dating.


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